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Frequently Asked Questions:

How and when do I RSVP?

Invites with our RSVP details should be reaching you very soon! We’re accepting RSVP’s here on our website, so head over to this page to submit your response. We kindly ask for your response by March 25th.

What is the deadline to book a hotel room in the room block?

The Hotel Kansas City room block with reserved pricing will expire 1 month prior to our event, at which point any remaining rooms will be released back to the hotel; therefore, please make make any final bookings no later than April 8th. That said, we recommend booking earlier than the deadline; with the World Cup happening in Kansas City in June 2026 (!), the hotel is anticipating higher demand than normal with press and teams arriving in May as well as the usual weddings, graduation events, and more.

Can I bring my children?

Our wedding will be adults only, with the exception of our nieces and nephews. Thanks for your understanding!

What is the dress code for Saturday?

We kindly request black tie attire (tuxedos or floor-length gowns/jumpsuits/formal sets) for Saturday’s events. All events will be indoors, and transportation will be provided.

Will transportation be provided?

Yes, we will be providing transportation to the events on both Friday and Saturday.

  • On Friday, buses will shuttle guests between Hotel Kansas City and J. Rieger & Co. for our welcome party.

  • On Saturday, buses will shuttle guests between Hotel Kansas City & the Cathedral downtown (our wedding venue).

Timelines for transportation will be confirmed closer to the weekend. If you opt for other transportation, ubers/lyfts are widely available, and parking is available at J. Rieger & Co., the Cathedral, and Hotel Kansas City (Valet only).

What else should I do while I’m in town?

On Friday night (5/8) we will be hosting a welcome party for all guests at 8PM J. Rieger & Co (see our “Weekend Details” page for more)! We will also be updating the site with our favorite Kansas City spots for food, drinks, and fun - stay tuned!